Do You Feel Unheard, Disrespected, or Abandoned in Your Own Family?
We Say Out Loud What Other Stepmoms Are Secretly Afraid to Admit
Discover how the most grounded and secure stepmoms overcome their deepest fears, feelings, and frustrations and learn to take back control of their homes and relationships.
I've tried almost every other forum, membership, and service out there for stepmoms. Brittany's approach is the only one that has worked for me.
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JULIE M., STEPMOM OF 1, CANADA
This program saved my stepfamily and my relationship
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SARAH G., STEPMOM OF 2, CANADA
Peace, Love, Stepmom
The next-best-thing to hopping in a time machine & meeting your partner first...
The Step-By-Step Journey to Harmony, Happiness, and Fulfillment in Your Blended Family.
Our humble beginnings
You Never Have To Do This Alone Again
because nobody "gets it" like another stepmom who's been where you are...
When I became a stepmom nearly a decade ago, I had no idea what I was getting myself into. Maybe you can relate?
While I still saw my future through rose colored glasses, I would fantasize about becoming one big happy family. At one point in my early relationship, I wrote a letter to my husband, pouring my heart out about how I vowed to love my stepson like my own. I committed to befriending his mom. I imagined us all together, poolside, laughing and joking and clinking our glasses together on our combined family holidays.
Needless to say, it was only a matter of time before I realized that my starry-eyed dreams of becoming one-big-happy-blended-family were just that... Dreams.
Within no time, I began to struggle. I was finding it impossibly hard to cope with the demands of becoming an overnight parent. Emotionally, mentally, spiritually, I was in over my head. And I had no idea what to do about it.
I became miserable, disconnected, and angry. I would spend most of our parenting-time locked in my bathroom, scouring the internet for solutions. But no matter how many hours-long baths that I took, (or how many wine bottles I found myself at the bottom of,) I never managed to find the answers I was looking for...
My relationship was falling apart, my self-esteem was crumbling, and seemingly nobody on the internet, in the library, or in a therapist's office, had any helpful advice on how to become a good and happy stepmom.
Everything I could find for stepmoms was either negative, defeating, or dismissive. Most advice I could find would instruct me to either to accept a life of misery or to leave my husband. But that wasn't acceptable to me.
As a registered nurse with specialized training in neurology and psychiatry, I knew there had to be a better way to bond with my stepson, overcome my jealousy and anger towards his bio-mom, and stop walking on eggshells around my husband.
I didn't know what I had to do, but I knew I had to do something. I knew that I couldn't, for one more day, stay stuck in my anger wondering:
How does a 7 year old -- and a woman who doesn't even live here -- have more control over my household than I do?
Is this really what I have to look forward to for the rest of my life? Is this all there is?
If my husband and I ever separate, I swear I'll never date someone with kids everrrr again.
Will I ever be chosen? Or will I forever feel like everyone else matters to him more than I do?
Sick of living my life in limbo, haunted by that pesky question of "should I stay or should I go," I decided enough was enough.
I couldn't waste another day questioning if this was the right relationship for me. I knew that if nobody else had the solutions I was looking for, that I'd have to create those solutions myself.
And so I did.
In 2017, I took a significant step forward by becoming a certified stepfamily counselor through the Stepfamily Foundation in NYC. I was trained and mentored directly by the founder, Dr. Jeannette Lofas, who is a pioneer in stepfamily support. Her research and works have been pivotal in helping stepfamilies find unity, and I am grateful to have learned so much from her decades of personal and professional expertise.
Since then, I've worked with all types of stepfamilies from all around the world. I have developed the world's most transformative, empowering, and life-changing personal development curriculum for stepmoms. I've cracked the code to teaching stepmoms how to feel at home in their body, mind, soul, and stepfamilies. I believe that happy stepfamilies are built by healthy people, and that's exactly what this program aims for.
We are thrilled to invite you into our community of empowered stepmoms, so you can continue your journey to stepfamily harmony today.
Friends don't let friends stepmom alone.
I no longer silence my own voice. I don't overthink or worry anymore. I have found my way back to self-love.
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LINDSEY M., STEPMOM OF 2, CANADA
Before working with Brittany, I used to get triggered all the time. I felt unappreciated and unseen in my home, and was afraid of abandonment/my fiancè leaving. I often felt like second choice, the runner-up. I always put everyone else before myself - making sure everyone else's needs are met, their feelings are okay, at my own expense.
Stepfamily, Revolutionized
Your Teacher, Guide, and Mentor for Stepfamily Harmony
Hi, I'm Brittany Lynch, and my passion for helping stepmoms thrive stems from my own personal journey as a stepmother, and my extensive professional experience in health and well-being.
As a certified Stepfamily Counsellor, Registered Nurse, and Kundalini Yoga Teacher, my multifaceted background has fueled my fascination with the human body, mind, and soul, leading me to explore the most effective ways to alleviate suffering in stepfamily relationships.
I have lived in a stepfamily for the last quarter of a century, personally playing the roles of stepdaughter, full-time stepmom, bio-mom, and co-parent. I cannot understate how important this work is for me. Just ask any of my clients and they will tell you how passionately and fiercely I'll work with you to redefine the stepfamily narrative.
I firmly believe that the foundation of happy stepfamilies lies in the well-being of its members. That's why I'm dedicated to supporting my clients with a holistic blend of body, mind, and soul modalities. My mission is to help you embrace your role as a stepmom with confidence and ease, knowing that you're already equipped to be a fantastic stepmom - you just need to realize it.
My approach is deeply rooted in mindfulness-based interventions, somatic therapies, emotional and energetic work, and a unique perspective on spirituality that focuses on finding pleasure, satisfaction, and meaning in your life. I'm here to guide you in creating a sense of safety and security within yourself, while also navigating the practical challenges of stepfamily life.
Together, we'll work on...
setting uncrossable boundaries
communicating effectively without the defensiveness
resolving conflicts without harming your intimacy
fostering meaningful relationships with those you might have once thought impossible to connect with
creating your unique stepmom job description that fits perfectly for you and the role you desire to play in your stepfamily
redistributing power-dynamics so you become respected as the female head of your household
protecting your time, energy, and money, so you and your partner can build the best life for your family.
My integrated, holistic method invites you to cultivate optimal wellness within yourself, so you can approach your stepfamily relationships with an open heart, compassion, and empathy - the essential ingredients for transforming any dysfunctional stepfamily dynamic into a harmonious and loving one.
5 Ways Peace, Love, Stepmom Will Change Your Life
1. Be the Captain Of Your Own Ship 🚢
Set sail on a journey to happiness and fulfillment, even if your stepfamily isn't ready to change their course. With our program, you can become the happy, healthy, and fulfilled stepmom you deserve to be, no matter the weather!
2. Calm the Storm Within! 🌪️
Say goodbye to shaking hands, racing thoughts, and a heart that beats like a drum solo in a rock concert. Our service helps you find your inner peace, so you can navigate life with the calmness of a serene sea.
3. Unmask Your True Self! 🎭
No more living a double life, feeling like you're playing a part that just isn't you. It's time to take off the mask and reveal the authentic, wonderful stepmom you truly are!
4. Speak Your Truth, Not War! 🕊️
Learn the art of communication that turns potential arguments into productive conversations. Say goodbye to walking on eggshells and hello to speaking your truth with confidence and grace.
5. Find Your Place in the Family Portrait! 🖼️
No more feeling like an outsider looking in. With our guidance, you'll find your rightful place in the family picture, feeling as much a part of the family as anyone else.
Who Is Peace, Love, Stepmom For?
For the Stepmom Who's Tried It All
If you've exhausted every resource – therapy, books, podcasts, and venting to friends – in search of happiness within your stepfamily, this program is for you. We offer a fresh perspective and effective tools that go far beyond traditional methods to bring you the joy and fulfillment you've been seeking.
For the Stepmom Seeking Community:
Feeling isolated? Craving connection with others who truly understand your struggles? Our program provides a supportive community of growth-focused stepmoms who "just get it." Here, you'll find a sense of belonging and shared experiences that will uplift and empower you.
For the Stepmom Desiring Harmony:
If you dream of forming closer, more harmonious relationships within your stepfamily, this is your chance. We'll guide you in building stronger bonds with your stepchildren, partner, and even the bio-mom, turning your stepfamily into a source of strength and joy.
For the Stepmom Committed to Personal Growth:
Do you value health, happiness, healing, and personal growth? Are you a fan of self-discovery and personal inquiry? Our program is designed for stepmoms who are passionate about their own development and see the journey as an opportunity for transformation.
For the Stepmom Seeking Confidence in Her Relationship:
If you're looking for reassurance that you made the right choice in joining your stepfamily, this program will provide you with the confidence and clarity you need. We'll help you navigate the complexities of stepfamily life with assurance and grace.
What Our Clients Are Saying
- Sarah, Empowered Stepmom
"When I joined the Stepqueen program, I was struggling with feeling disconnected and unhappy in my stepfamily role. But this program turned everything around for me. I learned how to be happy and fulfilled, even when my stepfamily wasn't on board with change. I no longer feel like I'm living a double life, and I've stopped walking on eggshells around my husband. My relationship with my stepson has improved dramatically, and I feel like a valued member of the family. This program has been a lifesaver!"
- Emily, Transformed Stepmom
"Stepqueen has been a game-changer for me. I used to feel like an outsider and struggled with anxiety in my stepfamily. But this program taught me how to find peace and calm within myself, even when things get tough. I've learned how to speak my truth without starting arguments and how to feel like a true part of the family. My stepchildren and I have developed a strong bond, and our family dynamic has never been better. I'm so grateful for the transformation this program has brought to my life."
- Jessica, Empowered Stepmom
"Before Stepqueen, I felt powerless in my stepfamily, constantly overshadowed by my stepchildren's bio-mom. But this program empowered me to overcome my jealousy and anger. I've learned to embrace my role with confidence and grace. My relationship with my stepchildren has transformed, and I no longer feel like an outsider. Stepqueen has not only changed my stepfamily life but has also been a journey of personal growth and empowerment."
- Krista, Transformed Stepmom
"I used to live every day in a negative, pessimistic, angry state. I was full of resentment towards bio-mom, my stepson and my husband. I also felt like I had no value, and that I had no place in the family dynamic. Thankfully, I'm now equipped with the tools and knowledge to think through situations rationally. I'm happy that the things that used to trigger me no longer put me into a bad mood all evening, or cause me to pick fights with my husband."
You Are The Nucleus Of Your Stepfamily
Imagine A More Supportive & Supported Future
Envision a future where you're not just surviving in your blended family, but thriving. Our program has already transformed the lives of stepmoms like Sarah, Emily, Jessica, and Krista, who now feel valued, respected, and deeply connected to their stepfamilies.
Imagine being our next success story, where you, too, can wake up each day feeling confident and cherished in your role.
With our proven curriculum and supportive community, you'll build a harmonious home life where you're an integral and beloved member of your blended family.
Let's create a future filled with peace, love, and joy in your stepfamily journey.
Together.
What's Included in Peace, Love, Stepmom Group Coaching?
Coaching, Counselling, Curriculum & Community
The True You: Personal Development Curriculum
Dive into our comprehensive curriculum designed specifically for stepmoms who are truly committed to a life of peace, love, and radiance.
This 12-module program is crafted to empower you with the knowledge, tools, skills, and mindset shifts that will completely transform your stepmom experience.
With each video module and corresponding introspective exercises, you'll get to know, trust, and cherish yourself like never before. This new level of self-love and self-confidence will unlock your potential as the most fulfilled, authentic version of yourself.
This curriculum is evidence-based, experience-backed, and guaranteed to change your life in the best ways possible.
Value: $10,000
Evidence-Based Tools & Biologically Supportive Strategies
Gain access to an extensive, searchable library of resources aimed at helping you create a felt sense of peace and safety in your body.
These tools are designed to provide you with immediate relief from stressful situations, and set the foundation for healthy dynamics in your stepfamily.
You don't have to wait for the future to feel at peace; start transforming your life today.
Weekly Group Coaching Calls with a Stepfamily Counsellor
Join a weekly group coaching or counselling session led by a certified and vetted stepfamily professional.
These calls provide a supportive space to discuss your challenges, receive expert guidance, and connect with other growth-oriented stepmoms who are facing similar situations.
Benefit from the collective wisdom and experience of the group as you navigate your stepfamily journey.
Value: 36 calls/year= $7992 annually
Weekly Teaching Calls with Diverse Topics and Expert Teachers
Expand your knowledge and understanding with weekly teaching calls featuring a variety of topics and expert instructors.
Learn best practices for stepfamilies, strategies for developing relationships teens and tweens, techniques for eliminating anxiety, and much more. These sessions are designed to equip you with the tools and insights needed to excel in every aspect of your stepfamily life.
Value: 36 calls/year= $7992 annually
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What Topics & Lessons Are Covered By The Curriculum?
We cover anything and everything you'd need to know about creating your Happiest Ever After life. Here are some examples of modules, lessons, or workshops included in our Powerfully Transformative Personal Development Curriculum...
The Instruction Manual
Dive into the essentials of stepfamily life with our comprehensive manual. Learn what's normal, how stepfamilies differ, the myths to dispel, and the crucial problems to solve right away. Includes a loving letter to the bio-parent explaining step-bonding intricacies, validating everyone's experience.
Clear Role Responsibilities
Clarify your role and responsibilities within the stepfamily. Learn how to balance your needs with those of your family, setting the foundation for a harmonious home life.
Making Your Milestones Special
Celebrate your unique milestones as a stepfamily. Learn how to create special memories that honor your journey together.
Softening and Opening to Our Stepchildren
Learn how to bond with your stepkids in a way that feels good for everyone. This module includes fun activities and lessons to foster positive, loving connections with your stepchildren.
Healing from Your Partner's Past
Navigate the emotional landscape of your partner's past relationships. Learn to heal and move forward with understanding and compassion.
Co-existing Peacefully with Any Ex
Learn strategies for maintaining a peaceful coexistence with ex-partners, fostering a positive environment for your stepfamily.
Me vs. Her: How To Be Chosen
Embrace your unique journey as a stepmom. Learn to let go of comparisons and celebrate your own path to stepfamily harmony. What's Include in the Peace, Love, Stepmom Coaching Program
The Differences & The Dynamics
Explore the unique dynamics and differences within stepfamilies. Gain insights into the roles, relationships, and interactions that define your blended family life.
You First - Prioritize Your Relationship with Yourself
Discover the importance of putting yourself first. This module focuses on self-care, self-love, and the significance of nurturing your own well-being to become a stronger, more resilient stepmom.
Education about Relationships
Enhance your understanding of relationships with education on emotional expression, communication, boundary setting, and active listening. A safe space to be heard and understood.
Chores, Responsibilities, and Rule Enforcement
Establish clear guidelines for chores, responsibilities, and bedtimes. Learn effective strategies for rule enforcement that foster respect and cooperation.
Stepchild/Stepmom Bonding Ideas/Questions
Strengthen your bond with your stepchildren through engaging questions and activities designed to deepen your connection and understanding of each other.
Family Date Night Ideas & Manners
Discover creative ideas for family date nights that promote bonding and teach manners. Create memorable experiences that bring your blended family closer together.
Step 1: Comfy
Embrace softening, slowing down, and tapping into your creativity and intuition. This step is all about embracing your femininity and creating a comfortable, welcoming space for yourself and your stepfamily.
Inner-Child Workshop
Connect with your inner child in this transformative workshop. Heal past wounds and embrace your playful, innocent side to bring more joy and authenticity to your stepfamily role.
"My Stepmom..." Reflection Exercise
Imagine what your stepchild would write or draw about you in an essay or story. This exercise helps you envision the positive impact you want to have on their lives.
Dr. Katherine Endy Workshop
Participate in a specialized workshop led by conscious parenting researcher and coach, Dr. Katherine Endy, focusing on specific challenges and opportunities unique to the parenting role that stepmoms play.
"What Do I Do If..." Troubleshooting
Access a comprehensive guide for navigating common stepfamily challenges. Get practical advice and solutions for a variety of "what if" scenarios.
Nurturing Your Romantic Relationship
Learn strategies for keeping your romantic relationship strong and vibrant amidst the complexities of stepfamily life.
Keeping Your Love Separate - Untangling from Kids/Ex:
Discover techniques for maintaining the sanctity of your couple's relationship while coexisting peacefully with children and ex-partners.
Aligning Your Responsibilities & Practicing Loving Boundaries
Find balance in your responsibilities and learn to set loving boundaries that protect your well-being and foster respect within your stepfamily.
Dealbreakers and Agreements
Establish clear dealbreakers and agreements to ensure a healthy, respectful stepfamily environment.
Date Nights You Can Do Even If You Get the Kids Unexpectedly
Explore flexible date night ideas that accommodate unexpected changes in your schedule, ensuring quality time with your partner.
"What Do I Do If..." Relationship SOS
Access emergency advice for urgent relationship issues. Get immediate support and guidance for critical situations.
Assessing for Danger
Understand the importance of assessing for safety and potential dangers in stepfamily situations and learn how to navigate these challenges with grace.
[Total Value For One Year $25,984]
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You Now Have 3 Choices...
Option 1: Do Nothing and Stay the Same
You could choose to maintain the status quo, navigating the complexities of stepfamily life without seeking additional support. While it's seemingly a comfortable choice on the surface, it often means enduring the same challenges, frustrations, and feelings of isolation that brought you here. If you're okay with no change, this path is always available.
Option 2: Google Solutions and Seek Cheaper Alternatives
Certainly, the internet is a treasure trove of information, offering countless pieces of advice and potential solutions. You might spend the next year trying various tips and tricks, seeking out cheaper, less comprehensive programs. However, without a structured, personalized approach, you risk finding yourself in the same place next year, having made little to no progress toward the love and connection you deserve.
Option 3: Sign Up Today, Covered by Our Guarantee, and Experience Life-Changing Results
This is the path for those ready to make a real change. By choosing to joine our Peace Love Stepmom Group Coaching Program, you're not just investing in a course; you're investing in a brighter future for yourself and your stepfamily. With our satisfaction guarantee, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Our comprehensive approach is designed to provide not just solutions, but transformations, offering you the chance to become the confident, joyful, and empowered stepmom you deserve to be. Why wait another day to start living your best stepfamily life?
FAQ's
Is this program right for me if I'm new to being a stepmom?
Absolutely! Our program is designed for stepmoms at any stage of their journey. Whether you're new to the role or have been navigating stepfamily life for years, you'll find valuable insights and tools to help you create a harmonious and fulfilling family experience.
What if my stepfamily situation is particularly challenging?
Our program is equipped to handle a wide range of stepfamily dynamics and challenges. We provide personalized support and practical solutions to address complex situations, helping you navigate even the toughest obstacles with confidence and grace.
How much time do I need to commit to this program?
We understand that stepmoms lead busy lives, so our program is designed to be flexible and accommodating. While we recommend setting aside a few hours each week to engage with the content and participate in coaching calls, you can tailor your involvement to fit your schedule.
Will I get direct access to a stepfamily counsellor?
Yes! Our program includes weekly group coaching calls with a certified stepfamily counsellor. These sessions offer you the opportunity to ask questions, seek guidance, and connect with an expert who understands the unique challenges of stepfamily life.
What if I'm not satisfied with the program?
We are so confident in the transformative power of this work that we guarantee your results.
Follow the plan and the path that are in front of you, and if you do not experience more peace, love, and stepfamily harmony than you had when you began our program, then we will work with you until you do.
How will this program help me improve my relationship with my stepchildren and partner?
Our program focuses on building strong, positive relationships within your stepfamily. You'll learn effective communication techniques, bonding strategies, and ways to navigate complex emotions. By applying these tools, you'll foster deeper connections with your stepchildren and strengthen your partnership, creating a more loving and united family environment.