Tired of feeling lonely, out-of-place, or like you can't be yourself in your own home?
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bepeacebelovebeyourself
hello, beautiful soul.
you have been called to
heal
your lineage. we are so thrilled to see
you, again.
I help stepmoms establish themselves as valued, respected, and included members of their blended families. I'll help you fully embrace and love the life you live, and the people you live it with.
I WORK WITH STEPMOMS WHO DEEPLY LOVE THEIR PARTNERS, BUT...
Feel left out, like an outsider, almost always coming second to the "First Family"
Don't know how to deal with their stepkids, and have started distancing themselves as a result
Experience overwhelming feelings of jealousy, resentment, insecurity, or awkwardness
Keep having the same arguments about the same problems over and over and over again.
Are sick of feeling like they live a double life
Feel their stomach drop & heart race every time their partner's phone dings
Two words: Transition Day
Worry that the milestones they share with their partner will be less special, since their partner has already "been there done that" with someone else
Can't help but wonder if they are even cut out to be a stepmom, or if they're meant to walk away from this role forever...
YOU WILL KNOW
if...
you've come here looking for support, not just because you feel so fucking lonely in your stepfamily, but also, because you might have started to realize that your unhappiness goes deeper than you thought.
I started off the same way as most of the incredible powerhouse women who create magic in this community;
where, even though you want to blame your stepchildren, your partner's ex, your ex, your in-laws, the neighbor's dog, the place the horses board, and that ninkumpoop who did that thingamajig to you six years and seventy eight days ago...
you don't even really know why you're so overwhelmed and agitated and. exhausted. all the time.
(it is not your fault.)
Maybe, like some others, you have read all the things, followed the shiny influencers and drank their thirsty koolaid, but loudly and outwardly chosen to hold tightly to your chaos and suffering, hoping someone would know or care enough to call you out.
We want you to know that we have been calling you, but not out.
calling out hurts.
We have been calling you in.
Like most people, we tend to pay the most attention to the things that hurt the most. And stepmotherhood has the power to bring the strongest of us to our knees.
and so it is.
Every single sensation of pain, agony, disconnection, disappointment, and loneliness you have ever felt, has lead you right here to this moment.
Every single daydream of happily ever after, white picket fences, and 2.5 children, has already come true for you.
you already have everything.
you already are everything.
and deep down, you already know that, don't you?
THE PAIN THAT YOU HAVE CONFRONTED IN YOUR STEPFAMILY HAS PREPARED YOU FOR A LIFE OF BLISS, PLEASURE, EASE, AND SPACIOUSNESS.
I know, because I (and many of our clients) live that life.
when both of those things feel the same, you are ready.
This work will heal everyone; this work is for everyone.
everyone is meant to take a different path to get there. And that is just the way it's meant to be.
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How long ago did you truly realize that you were sick and tired of retelling the same story about your stepfamily?
do you really want to blame your stepchildren, your partner's ex, your ex, your in-laws, the neighbor's dog, the place the horses board, and that ninkumpoop who did that thingamajig to you six years and seventy eight days ago?
or, if you look a little deeper, can you see that you are ready to change directions?
if you're like most who end up here, then you might realize that you feel lonely, and afraid, and shallow. When did your world become so small? How long since you've dared to look into a mirror? How long since you've been able to stand looking your own self in the eyes?
if you feel afraid, that's okay. we (try our human best to) tell only truths here. it stings sometimes. and that's okay, because, truth that stings will always be sweeter than the murk of disillusion.
deep down, you already know is what is right, and what is true. and only you can know what is right, and true, for you.
this is an invitation to pursue what is true, and right, so that you can feel good about yourself again.
you probably already know that, when we feel good about ourselves, we treat others with love and care and attention.
but especially ourselves.
soon, this suffering trap will be but a distant memory, because you will be so used to living within the joy of pure unconditional love.
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it has been a long, painful road to get here, and this we acknowledge.
the amethyst reminds you that you have always sought to find a twinkle of hope, even amongst the rubble.
is it a coincidence that you have aligned yourself with the gemstone that signifies peace? or have you always been drawn to that which reminds you of a brighter future?
you have likely already begun to recognize all the ways that humans can hold tightly to chaos. we can see so clearly the ways that the people we love will stubbornly cling to their own suffering. perhaps you have started to realize the ways you have been clinging to your own. are you ready to elevate yourself from the rubble once and for all?
this oracle is an invitation to stop looking for the light outside of yourself, and to remember that you are the light you seek.
you have been, all along.
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Captivating, mysterious, and enchanting, this oracle asks you to consider how long you have been fiercely protecting your beautiful heart?
The orchid requires just the right conditions to bloom. How long will you remain tight in a bud waiting for those ideal conditions?
Maybe you've started to realize that, no matter where you place your roots, you are always yearning to be somewhere else.
Anywhere, but here.
How much love, light, peace, and joy have you surpassed by waiting for perfect weather?
You are being called to a new level of awareness, where you realize what you have known all along:
That by waiting for the people, places, and things around you to be any different than they already are, you are robbing yourself of the pleasure and freedom that comes from expressing as your authentic self.
This is a reminder that, you do not truly want to live in the sun every day: the eyes would burn, and the heart would shrivel up.
As surely as the night will follow the day, the calm will follow the chaos. When will you allow yourself to bloom where you are planted?
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The moon reveals the conflict you've long faced between femininity and power. How can you be everything to everyone?
You might see this in yourself in the ways that you bury yourself in your work and accomplishments to avoid the disconnection in your stepfamily and relationships. You do not allow yourself to wonder who you would be without the status of your successes to define you. You are blind to your own beauty and softness, turning others' compliments into a debate.
You champion vulnerability yet do not know how to let the world see the real you. To protect yourself, you keep everyone at a distance by offering love covered in razor blades. You confuse people for playthings, and reel when they resist your efforts to mold them the way you see fit.
When was the first time you admitted to yourself that life was supposed to be so much more fun, and loving, and enjoyable than this?
How much longer until you admit to yourself that, yes, you are so tired. That you have worked so hard, for so long, and that now, you deserve to rest.
your rest will heal your lineage.
Sweet girl, you have worked hard enough. You have labored, and toiled, and given enough.
It is your time, your turn, to love you the way you've been loving everybody else around you.
It is your time to receive the generosity, and compassion, and forgiveness, that you so rightly deserve.
You have always been gentle, loving, caring, generous, thoughtful, gracious, and forgiving.
Soon everyone else will be able to see that, too.
The Moon invites you to come into balance with your creative, sensual, emotional side. You already know that you have the grit, tenacity, and resourcefulness to prove that nothing is impossible. Imagine how powerful you will feel when
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the longing to love and be loved is primal
if you've already unknowingly started to wonder upon the simple yet profound yes-or-no Question that eliminates all stepfamily suffering, then, you will know based on the aching loneliness that resonates from deep within.
That loneliness is what brought you here.
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Knowing how to answer The Question is the difference between laying awake all night repeating worst-case-scenarios in your mind, and, falling asleep the second your head hits the pillow.
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Knowing how to answer The Question is the difference between creating fake social media accounts to try to spy on your partner's ex, and, stopping by that same ex's house with flowers and a fresh batch of cookies to comfort them during a hard time.
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Knowing how to answer The Question is the difference between Googling "When to leave because of stepkids," and, "When to tell your stepkids you love them."
The difference between "my stepmom hated me but pretended she didn't," and, "my stepmom was always there for me, and always let me know I was loved, even when I was having a hard time."
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You already know The Question. But, knowing when to ask it and how to answer it is the difference between a life of suffering, jealousy, struggle, outsider-syndrome, resentment, anger, betrayal, and manipulation ---and, peace, love, lightness, spaciousness, freedom, generosity, and joy.
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Your lifelong search to answer this Question is what has led you here.
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This work will challenge everything you thought you knew to be true about the world, life, love, relationships, and what it means to be Whole.
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It's your turn to rest.
It's your turn to breathe.
It's your turn to be loved.
It's your turn to be happy.
It's your time.
We've got you.
Welcome home.
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There is a type of family where people are never judged, never hated, never blamed, never abused, never an abuser, never left, never leaving? Never too big or too much or too fat or too ugly or too fake?
A life where your house feels like home -- 100% of the time? Where you didn't have to avoid people, or places, or feelings, inside your own four walls?
A life where, no matter where you went, or what kind of chaos or drama was being stirred up around you, or what kinds of bad news was about to come down the pipe,you were able to remain completely unfazed.
peaceful.
blissful, even.
A life where you could wake up each and every day with a smile on your face and a glow in your heart, because you just knew that everything was going to be okay.
What if I told you,
You can have that life.
I already have that life.
My clients have that life.
And guess what?
You already have it, too.
You already have everything you need to live a life abundant with peace, love, and joy.
Once you know what I know -- what I teach inside of this work -- there is only bliss.
Once you have learned to ask yourself this one simple yet profound yes-or-no Question that can eliminate all suffering,
Once you have felt the power of the answer soothe your soul, like grandma's chamomile tea in fuzzy slippers, then you will understand.
You might, like so many of our other clients, say within an hour of The Question,
as tears of joy fill your eyes,
and your heart cracks open,
you might also say,
"I see it now."
Beyond these gates, you will receive the keys to the universe. let's allow that to sink in a moment.
Please be clear about your intention to join.
s o f r e e . s o l i g h t . s o a l i v e .
j u s t l i k e y o u.
All paths can help you to discover how to end all suffering with only one simple yet profound yes-or-no Question.
The length of time it takes is up to you.
There is no "right" path, there is only the path that's right for you. Tomorrow never comes. Your time is now.
Tap the button above to talk with a member of our team about the ways we help stepmoms regain control of their time, energy, and money.
of all the paths you could have followed, what was it that led you here?
yes, i want to regain control of my
and reconnect with the powerful woman i really am
* Are you ready to be freed from your suffering and dance in the ashes of the letters you've burned?
* Are you ready to hear the truth and look inward instead of outward?
* Do you dream of the life you thought you were going to live and crave the intimacy of it?
* Are you willing to let down the walls of everything you thought you knew about yourself and dig into your deepest expression?
* Are you ready to create a life that is calm, safe, and spacious? Sacred.
* Do you have what it takes to fail and still hold compassion for yourself so you can be open to receiving?
* Are you ready to be seen for the gentle, loving, caring, generous, thoughtful being you are and bathe in the miracle that is your devine feminine energy?
If you've made it this far, keep going! There is no other place like this for stepmoms.
You've been called home...